Todd is really smart. He is on the cutting edge for understanding the power of "thought" and how we actually "create" relationships according to our deeply held (but not always accurate) beliefs! I mold my relationship with my focus.. with my attitude. I teach my partner how to treat me. Buy his wonderful book, "The Long Hot Marriage". You don't have to be married of course, even if you are in a relationship of any sort.See MoreRead Less"