"You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly." ~ -Sam Keen --- "Sex is the outward visible sign of an inward spiritual grace bringing about love." ~ Alan Watts -- I have only my occasional online communication with them to go by, but both intuition and observation of their presence and expression tell me that if anyone radiates the essence of the two opening quotations, it is certainly is Ben & Efrat. OmShalom :o)